By Zuldaza • Score: 0 • April 8, 2025 6:44 AM
Her background: We met online through a dating app. She was raised very conservative, practically Mormon/omish. She was even home schooled. She has out grew her religion and started experiencing life a little bit more. She's has had only a few partners (I don't know the exact number) however she just ended her 4-5 year relationship on Valentine's Day this year.
My background: just got out of a relationship around the first week of February and hooked up with a few women prior to meeting this girl. My ex meant well however was very aggressive/masculine which is why I couldn't support it anymore and ended the relationship.
How we met: we met on the dating app and decided to go out on St Patrick's Day. We had fun and she was very shy. I have a very outgoing personality and left her feeling at ease. She complimented me on how men don't give her princess treatment like I do, regarding being chivalrous and taking care of her. We ended up hooking up and she stayed the night. We had an amazing time and I really liked her.
Background on us: Im at a point in life where I just want to mess around however if the right girl comes, I'm not going to let her go. She's in the military and went away the following weekend. We stayed in communication and have talking through video chat or phone calls on average about 5x a week. I do like her however she's about a 4 hour flight away. However around the end of the year she's going to move back to San Diego. I never asked her for any sexual photos or videos (It doesn't really get me off in general). I also told her I don't want anything serious and she was totally understanding. I have morals and the last thing I would want to do is lead a woman on or hurt her. She even said something along the lines "I know you're going fuck other bitches." Haha I was caught off guard but I thought everything was fine.
The problem: I'm a huge UFC fan and invited her to watch the event in Kansas City with me in late April. She agreed and I got the tickets and she got the hotel. Last week she calls me to tell me she feels guilty for sleeping with me and regrets being so sexual with me (including the photos/videos). She claims she still wants to go but doesn't want to sleep with me. She claims it's not the way she was brought up. I spoke to friends and family and decided to end whatever we had going on.
I'm going to list the reasons below 👇
1) I believe if I were to still go with her we would most likely still sleep with each other. I know that sounds good however her telling me she doesn't want that and it actually happening would make me feel guilty. I would feel like I completely used her which is against what I stand for.
2) If what she said is true about feeling guilty because of how she was brought up then she slept with me on impulse. I really believe her saying she doesn't want to sleep with me is on impulse as well. I wouldn't want a woman who behaves in such a manner, just making emotional decisions.
3) although we established it was open on my end. I really don't believe she was doing anything behind my back however it would cross my mind since I never established anything regarding her.
Question: I already made my decision however just want some feedback. Did I make the right call or should I still have gone and enjoyed it with her? (I still have the tickets and my flight). Please include your sex, I just want to see the difference in opinion.
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