📝 AITA

By Plus_Process7975 • Score: 4 • April 14, 2025 7:03 PM


AITA I 24(f) and my boyfriend 27(M) have been together for 2 years. I love the man with everything I am but over the last 6 or so months he's been treating me less than kind , speaking down to me , yelling and screaming , throwing things , talking down about my friends , and giving me ultimatums. I am a very loving forgiving person and that may make me a fool however I have forgiven all the ways he's been treating me and chalked it up to stress . He refuses to speak to me about work or his personal life regarding it with the most explanation I get being "I'm busy". Recently I have found myself begging for intimacy of any kind, I am a very sexual person and would happily sleep with him multiple times a day which is something I was incredibly upfront about 2 years ago when we met. He's been unable to keep up not only with that ( which is understandable) but also is having issues keeping up with 2 maybe three times a week and has instead opted for once a month . I have voiced many times how this hurts and I'm feeling not attractive anymore.. it's feeling like he's witholding as a way to control me. Recently I've let men hit on me at my waitresses job more and stopped having such strict boundaries never allowing touch or anything too far but allowing a simple you're pretty or you look hot without batting an eye when I would've shut them down immediately when we first started dating . AITA for expecting serial intimacy and voicing that....

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