So a for about three days now, me and my bf have been arguing about how he believes I never make time for him and always cancel plans w him. About two weeks ago I got a pretty bad concussion and I’ve been missing out on a lot, such as dance completions, seeing my friends and him, and even a school trip to Europe. He knows that I have rather stricter parents and that I can’t always hangout, but I do try to make time for him. For some context, we are both juniors in high school and we both play sports, have families, and all around different lives and I’ve stressed to him on numerous occasions that weekly hangouts are not always realistic. So today is where I really got fed up, because I had a neurologist appointment in the morning and he asked me the day of if I could come to his house to help him babysit his baby sister. I didn’t even mind doing it, but quite honestly I wasn’t in the mood to see him since we had been fighting prior. The real issue started when I told him that I wasn’t able to make it to his house because the appointment lasted for about two hours, and my mom had no time to drive me to his house then get to work. I told him exactly that and instead of being understanding, he told me that if I rlly wanted to I could’ve taken the train to his house. Now mind you, I do have a concussion and I have been out of sports, school, and all other activities. The whole commute would have taken me about 45 mins to an hour, and I haven’t been feeling my best since the injury so I would rather have not did it. He argued that he knew I would ditch on him, as I won’t lie that I have a few times in the past bc my parents have either said no or I had something come up. So this has been the argument we have been having for three days, and I told him that if I’m really causing him that much stress and treating him like a piece of shit like he says, then he should just leave me. He then said that he doesn’t want to be w anyone else, but just wants me to be better for him. I told him that I see where he’s coming from and that I would try my hardest, once I heal from my injury, because I have done little to nothing these last two weeks. Then a little while ago we talked abt making plans for tmw, and he said that he would like to take me out to lunch, which I agreed to. Everything assumed to be getting better, but what really put the nail in the coffin was when he started comparing us to the relationships his friends have w their gfs, which really pissed me off since I’m a firm believer of not being jealous of what u see on someone’s Snapchat story, because you really never know what’s going on behind the scenes. I told him that he needs to stop w the comparssion and that it was not healthy for us. But then, he did something I wouldn’t have expected. He told me that his ex gf, who gw his friend a week after they broke up and claims treated him terribly, always made time for him. Not only was I pissed off hearing him say that, but the level of hurt that put me on was insane. How could someone I love so much compare me to his ex? In my response, I told him that this is crazy and I don’t want to speak to him rn and I will talk when I’m ready. I had the full intention of grabbing lunch with him tmw, but after the comparssion of me and his ex, I don’t think I want to be around someone who looks at what his ex did vs. what he claims I don’t do. He texted me multiple times after I told him to leave me alone and I haven’t opened a single message because of how hurt I am abt what he said for his ex. AITA for feeling this way?