Okay. So for context I'm in my later teens and my fiancee is in their early twenties. The lady we will be talking about is in her late 30s and we'll name her bob. Most of this is about me so I will use I a lot

So last February we lost our home due to severe mold poisoning. And so we found a communal house with 4 other people living there already.

So the first couple days we got there. We were greeted by Bob. Bob was really nice at first and we don't know anyone in this town so we figured we'd try and make aquantainces maybe even friends. So we chatted and than We started making dinner for Bob. Bob was at first really really grateful. Than after about a week of knowing them I started doordashing with Bob to make some extra cash for whatever. And they seemed fine. Well.. remember I am in my later teens and Bob is in her late 30s well bob started to call me hot and attractive and tell me they have a "crush" on me. So I informed her partner and mine and they both kinda got a little weirded out by Bob. Including I but I was still willing to give Bob a chance. Bob and Us (me and my fiancee) got closer. So the more we hung out the weirder Bob kind of got. Bob started sticking her nose into literally everything and I mean everything Bob will talk and she will only ever talk about herself or about you in a bad way not only was it an every day thing it was all about herself. So we kind of got a bit more cautious until she started interrupting every conversation we ever had. She'd have to butt in and make it about again herself. My fiancee started to back away because Bob ignored her the entire time and Bob would only focus on me because bobs gross and still liked me. Because of her ignoring my fiancee we (my fiancee and I) kinda backed away from Bob for a month or so.

In the midst of this bobs partner was telling us just about how bob doesn't know boundaries and or what privacy is. Let's just say Bob was severely controlling to her partner and was sh!t talking her son whose on the spectrum for eating all of Bobs food (it was one of his comfort foods). Now Bob eats EVERYONE'S food doesn't matter who you are she's grabbing handfuls of your food but you can't ask for her food or she gets pissed. Also Bob was recording all conversations with the people who interacted with her (private or not)

Bob also goes to meetings for People with addictions even tho she doesn't have one because she likes hearing people talk about her every other night

Than out of the blue I had the idea of trying to be friendly again with them because again we have no friends and our cars engine died. So we were contained in the house and it got boring. So the last two times I doordashed with Bob it was overwhelming. I brought my headphones just in case shed be too chatty but she talked over my headphones being at max because she knew I was ignoring her. And than shed start to sing the music in my headphones loud enough for me to hear and boy she is not good. After a while it got too much because we'd go to the park for bobs partner and son the one I mentioned before. Well she follows you everywhere and I mean everywhere she can't not be in your bubble. At this point we were done.

After a while Bob messaged me asking me why her partner was so mean to her and I asked her if she wanted the truth. And she said yes so I told her everything that I have been told by their partner. She called me a liar and just gave excuses the entire time so her partner started calling her out and than she threatened to put herself in the ward and the asylum and left. Than came back trying to start this shit again.

So I called her a lot of names and messaged her on all social media just to get her to leave her ex girlfriend the freak alone at this point and she threatened for the cops and I don't feel bad

AITA? Please let me know