Basically I'm not that great with people in general, I have the tendency to say the wrong thing, the wrong way, even when I don't mean it like that, I also act the wrong way sometimes, mostly cause idk how to act in social situations and other times I can be passive agressive without wanting too.

I have these two frnds, they are both sister and are frnds with me and my sister. The thing is they keep shit talking me behind, they're easy to read so it's not hard to tell. I always J let it go since ik I do things or say things that are shit talk worthy, even when I don't mean to. But idk, I make sure to understand where they are coming from, I don't get why they never offer me the same courtesy.

A while back one of them, the younger sister lets call her x, was wearing a shirt with an animated guy printed on it, he was printed with his back visible and his hands were behind his back, not tied, they were just there next to each other. The four of us were hanging out in a park. So I asked jokingly "why is this dude holding his hands behind his back?" I didn't say it in an offensive way, or atleast I don't think I did. But X jumped down my throat, she said "this is a shirt made by my people, are you making fun of the suffering of my people?" I didn't know it was a created by Palestinians nor did ik what it represented, maybe there was writing on it in Arabic that I missed. But she got hostile, and her older sister lets call her y, J stared me down in a hostile way, I'm not good with conflict so I froze. I'd J like to know was I in the wrong here.

Here I was 15 f, x was 14 f, my sister was 14 f and y was 15 f. There are other examples of stuff like this some recent to.

Like last month, x who is now 16 just randomly started being bitchy to me and my sister, this was during our IGCSE mocks. She was being odd in general on the first day so I pointed it out "why are U being odd?", I think I shouldn't have said it like that. But after that she became a full on bitchy, fully ignored our existence even though she was fine with the other girls in class. At one point we were all standing in a circle and she turned and stood directly Infront of me. But she would be fine on text, dry but fine. So I asked her after I went home, after days of hinting at her dryness on msgs, I asked "why are U being so odd?". We talked and everything was fine, apparently she'd been feeling weird and acting weird with everyone, even though she was only being a straight bitch to me and my sister, well mostly me. But now apparently shes mad at me again cause I didn't ask her if she was ok, and instead J pointed out how odd she was. Keep in mind I didn't call her out for being bitchy, J said she was being weird, I can't do conflict for the life of myself so I tend to tread lightly around stuff like this. I'm pretty sure I recall saying, "U good?", even though it was later into the conversation. But both her and her sister have been shit talking me, and their mad cause I didn't ask if she was ok.

Can you guys just give me your opinion, I could rlly use it.