There’s a lot of background context to this. As always. 🙏🏼🙏🏼

I can give it if anyone asks.

I came home from hospital a week or so ago during the day and in the evening after he worked late (he wfh) he came up to chill with me in the bedroom, it was about 8am. It was my first night at home and he’d suggested a bottle of wine. After a 6 day hospital stay and a massive surgery, I was taken a bit aback but was ok if he had a drink. I was on opiates so not going to do that.

We had an argument about a hot topic for me (domestic abuse) and I stormed off very slowly (just had surgery) and sent him a text as I normally do when I’m needing to calm down for a bit that read; “I will be ok on my own tonight. I am sorry but that has really upset me and I cannot see you right now”.

So he didn’t check on me. Once. He also ate the tacos I bought. He left them outside the door then got angry with me again and at them in spite, i can only imagine. So I slept the first night back after hospital on a mattress in the spare room next door, whilst i heard him watch something on tv.

This is not the first time he’s done this. I thought he was autistic, and when he had what I think now is a bit of a breakdown i left him a couple of years ago. then we got back together because he had done a lot of work and not had anything like this .. and then now when I need him the most. I figured he would have worked out that a woman just out of hospital for a major surgery might need a check during the night and perhaps something to eat.

There’s obviously a lot more to this. Ask away.

AMIAH for assuming he might come and see if i was ok?