Settle this for us please, we keep going in circles. Yes, it’s childish, I am fully aware but it’s bothering me.

Husband and I are on vacation. We rented a vehicle and we were flipping through genres of music to listen to. He was driving so I was pushing the buttons on the screen. I would ask him “2000’s rock?” And he would say yes so I’d try it. He didn’t like it. So I’d go back to the menu and say “Okay how about x genre” and he’d agree and decide he didn’t like it. This happens about 5 times and he keeps saying he doesn’t like the songs they’re playing. At some point in there, he says 80’s rock and I say no, I don’t want it and we move on.

Now, he’s saying and I quote “you don’t give a shit about me and what I want because you wouldn’t listen to the 80’s rock station”.

This comment flooooooooored me, to say the least, partly because this happened like 8 days ago and he’s just saying it now but also because how exactly does a radio station mean I don’t give a shit?

He said it was unfair that there were 2 songs that I enjoyed and got to listen to and he didn’t enjoy any of it, but would have if I didn’t veto the one station. I told him he was being too picky and if he wasn’t so busy being salty he probably would have found something he enjoyed.

I think this is totally unfair, seeing how he had input in every station I put on, and I only said no to one, even though the others weren’t what I’d generally listen to at home in my own vehicle either, and I never offered up my favourite genre, I skipped over it because I know he doesn’t enjoy it.

So tell me, Reddit, AITAH for saying no to the 80’s station?