I (f) went out with some girl friends for the night and planned to get back to my bf’s place, he told me to be back by 2:30 am and I agreed. I was updating him through the night and let him know I reached my car at 2.

I had time to get food thru the drive thru so I did that, then the car in front of me took legit 30 minutes. I was stuck in the drive thru and had only ordered fries, got back to his place by 3 AM. He told me i was late, I wasn’t updating him enough (I updated him about which club or bar i was going to, we were bar hopping), and that my skirt was too short and I was dressed like a slut.

He was trying to talk to be about his feelings but I was ignoring him trying to just go to sleep because I was so tired. He kicked me out and told me to sleep in my car since i dont want to talk or listen to him. I went to my car and it was cold af. I put my phone down and went to sleep.

He texted me 20 minutes later saying i can come back in if i want to talk. Then messaged that i can come in anyways without talking. I wasn’t on my phone so I didn’t see. Following morning, i was really upset at him for kicking me out to the car. He says hes not an asshole because he texted me 20 minutes later to come back in.

Am I overreacting?

(I tried to post in AIO but it didn’t let me)