Hello guys so I live with my boyfriend and his best friend. And we have been having an issue. Said best friend is being mean to me on purpose it feels like. He has said things like I’m nosey, lied and said I sucked his dick, got mad at me for hitting his vape even tho he said I could, said I was inconsiderate etc. the vape thing was the most recent and me and my bf were in the room and door was locked. He came home banged on the door and tried to open it and was mad. ( we were naked) lmaoo good thing the door was locked. I texted him this morning to resolve the issue. Another issue I’ve been having is my boyfriend not standing up to best friend when he has hurt my feelings. My boyfriend has not done anything or said anything to him when he actively is hurting my feelings or says something wrong and it makes me feel like shit. And we have had to talk about a few times now and I asked him to say something to him last night and he said no I’m not saying anything. AITA?

Here’s what I said.

You told me I could hit it, but now you're saying I can't and that I already did. The way you're acting is really rude, and it's confusing me. I just want to understand what's going on. If you don’t want me hitting your vape say no. I’m okay with not hitting it but don’t say I can and then get mad when I do. Because you said I could. I understand why you’re angry and I apologize.