Getting married this month and my fiancé M(30) and I f (28) just don’t seem to be on the same page. I feel like I’ve done ALL the planning up to this point and he will nod along or generally mumble a response to what he may like. I feel like he isn’t even really interested in getting married, just that’s just what he feels the next step is after 5 years together. Last night I had a few glasses of wine because I’ve been battling a chronic pain issue and tbh it helps. I tried to bring up some wedding planning ideas because I was feeling a bit looser and more able to actually discuss the idea without being preoccupied with the pain I was in. He shut me down and berated me for drinking. He didn’t offer any insight into our wedding day. Yes, I probably drink more than I should; but it is a coping mechanism and not at all out of control. There is also a lot of trauma in my past, and I have been to therapy etc. I feel very rejected. Am I forcing him into this?? Have I done something wrong?? Am I an asshole in general?? I don’t even know what to do at this point. Am I the AH for driving to ease my PAIN so that I can loosen up and discuss wedding things?