So my mom passed away two years ago and it’s still a really hard time for me. The date means a lot i usually spend it quietly with my dad and sister.

A few days ago, my cousin sent out her wedding invites and it’s literally on the same day. It’s not even like there was limited availability she chose the date because it’s “cute and easy to remember.”

I didn’t say anything at first but when i brought it up gently to her she got defensive and said i was making her wedding about me and now my aunt’s calling me selfish and entitled.

I’m not even saying she should cancel it i just wish she’d acknowledged it or even talked to me before picking that day.