Me = 27 F Him = 28 M

We have been in a relationship for over 4 years and a half and we always fight over stupid shit, mostly because he thinks I do or say things just to get him mad even though it is not true. Now to get back to our recent fight that started a few days ago, he was sitting in the bed and he was watching on his phone, I came in the room and I wanted to take a picture of him because he was looking funny and cute, he said No and I didn’t take the photo but I was keeping the phone in a position that looked like I was taking a picture, he said again no and I said that I am not taking a picture, here is where I have been a bit of asshole and I was teasing him a bit, but we do this all the time to each other, but I know I was in the wrong so after I saw he is leaving the room, I came directly to him and apologised, he still went in another room and didn’t take it. He also slept in another room that night.

Now the next morning I see him avoiding me and I let him have it entire day, I was upset too he got that mad over something so small in my opinion, but everyone need a time to cool off. He didn’t sleep in the following night with me again. Now 2 days pass and I see him literally giving me the silent treatment, a thing he used to do a lot in the beginning of our relationship. I tried to talk to him like asking him things, he was direct and cold.

Well today hit me hard some memories with him giving me the silent treatment, being mad at me for having a bad game or anything, whenever he is mad or stressed, I am the one taking it and I thought we passed over that stage. And I was like why the fuck was he that upset over that thing he finds so horrible when he uses to joke about my weight constantly and just one week ago he yelled at me again ? I know I am trying to find an excuse for my mistake which I totally agree was an asshole move from me, but why am I crying again?

Now an hour ago he came to talk and I said no I don’t feel like talking now, he goes why am I the upset one and that we need to communicate, so we need it when he wants but when I want, I have to wait for him to cool off? He got really mad and even left the house but here I am feeling a bit of evil and asshole but not entirely bad, I feel like this relationship is over. So AITA for refusing to communicate?

TL;DR Me and my boyfriend fought over a picture and he wants to talk about it after a few days but I refused. AITA?