I was showering with my bf the other night after getting at it and out of nowhere he brought up the idea of having a threesome. I looked at him blankly and he went on and said "what if another guy joins us? I want to explore a little." He never mentioned anything about being bisexual before.

Ok I was amused. I thought he must be joking. I asked him what that would look like and he said "I can bring along a friend and you can having fun, and then him and I can as well." I was a shocked. I asked him if he'd ever done anything with another guy and he said he didn't but that he's thought about it for a while. That was new to me..

I was so caught off guard. I have no interest in sleeping with another guy for his pleasure and I definitely don't want to be in a relationship where my bf is sleeping with other men. i gave him a definitive no and told him not to bring it up with me again. he just told me to think about it and he tried convincing me again the next morning.

i broke up with him. I'm still a bit shocked. I do not feel comfortable in that sort of relationship. I told him he can explore with other men without me... He said i'm overreacting and being close-minded and that he was just bringing up the idea. and even accused me of homophobia??? "just because I might be bisexual and thought of doing it before you don't want to be with me" no i just don't want my bf sleeping with others.. or other men.. while I'm with him. AITA??