throwaway because my gf knows my reddit username, me 27m and my 26f gf have been dating for roughly 5 years now, 3 years ago she started developing heart issues, anemia, an eating disorder and mental health challenges, i’ve tried everything to help her including doctors,therapists,dieticians,psychiatrists and my own attempts such as meal plans and supplements however nothing has been working, she means the world to me and is the most loving and amazing girl but seeing her deterioate and not take care of herself is crushing me, she depends a lot on me but with by busy schedule (60hr work weeks) combined with her living far away i can’t spend much time with her, ive lost my passion for sports and exercising and started having constant anxiety i want nothing more than for her to be healthy but i cant let my mental health keep getting worse but i dont want to leave her because she means the most to me and i dont want to hurt or abandon her. has anyone had a similar experience or has advice on what to do and AITAH for considering of ending my relationship with her?