Here's the backstory. I'm in my early 30s, female living in Boston. I'm mixed- moms white, dad is an immigrant from Venezuela, and my husband is African American and Latino. My closest friends are apart of the lgbtq community, I have 2 trans relatives from another line in my family. I've always been an open welcoming type of person. Idc what people do with their lives it's none of my business. However, my mother's family enjoys making comments. You know, the usual maga type stuff.

We're at the point where I'm being screamed at for asking them not to use racial or homophobic slurs. Why would you say s*** in front of your Latina family member!?! They want all of "us" deported, women belong in the kitchen having babies, and that's just the tiny tip of the ice berg. When I call them out I'm the asshole and I get screamed at. Even when I ask nicely hey maybe keep that shit to yourself when I'm around. I've been blocked for asking because I'm a "crazy delusional liberal and should just accept them". Oh the fucking hypocrisy.

I don't even recognize these people. I feel like I'm mourning people who are still alive. My grandparents are unhinged my mother takes their side and the rest of them are all assholes. I filed to legally change my last name and when I move I don't plan on telling them. I finally told one relative to fuck himself. I dont speak to my living siblings already, and they dont speak to each other. Half this family is at odds. They want me to drink the Kool aid so bad and I want nothing to do with their cult. I don't even like politics I just think we should let everyone be. I don't want to hear it. It's affecting my health badly and I'm a medical mess as is. AITA for wanting nothing to do with any of these people ever again? I wish I wasn't too old to be adopted by sane people. This is one of the hardest things I've ever done and I resent them all for this.