My son 33M just bought his first house we will call him Max. Max is engaged to a woman he has been dating for 7 years. We will call her Donna she is 29F. 4 years into them dating my son moved 13 hours away for a job opportunity and they did long distance for 16 months and his GF got a job, drivers license, and car so she can move to be with him. She moved into his apartment they got engaged and Max bought a house. Since he makes 2.5 times more than his fiancé and her credit is poor he put the house solely in his name so it’s his home. Well I made a FB post tagging just my son and stated how proud I am of him for the purchase of his new home and how this has been his dream since moving to where he moved to and I wish him the best of luck in his new home. And that I love him.

Well he loved the post and his fiance loved it as well and responded to the post saying, “thank you so much we are very excited for the purchase of our home and we are excited for this next journey of our lives and to see what this next chapter has in store for us. We love you too.” Umm I only tagged my son and the verbiage I used in the post made it very clear the post was meant just for my son. It’s not her home her name isn’t on the deed bc of her poor credit. I’m agitated that she is basically taking credit for my son’s accomplishment and also taking over and overstepping on a post from a mother to her son. The post wasn’t about her as she was never mentioned.

AITA for deleting her comment off of FB and reaching out to my son and telling him to please clarify to his fiance my intentions for the post as I didn’t appreciate her comment on a post that wasn’t meant for her?

I could be the AH bc she might not have overstepped.