Long story short, I’ve had a great friend that I met 2 years ago. We have traveled together, completed a medical program together, but it all changed after she started dating a man almost 12 years her senior (she’s in her early-mid 20s, I’m in my late 20s).

They have been seeing each other 6 weeks and she is heavily involved with him. He buys her flowers, takes her out to dinner, etc.

All was fine until he was posted on a “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook page. A girl commented and had us call her, she shared her story about how he raped her and showed up at her house unannounced (1year ago). He also has a criminal record of PFMAs (5-10 years ago) and arrests for stalking (10 years ago).

He has now told her that he believes I AM THE ONE MAKING THE FACEBOOK POSTS. She is actively denying these legal claims and woman’s statement because she believes him because he is “so sweet, stops if things are too rough, and is a great guy”.

Personally, I have been a victim of SA, DV, and stalking. throughout my life I have adamantly avoided and have genuine disgust for women who do not believe survivors. I have tried to tell her about love-bombing, blatantly told her continuing to see him is self-sabotage, and that I do not feel as though she is safe continuing this relationship. She does not care and believes his side of the story.

AITAH for ending this friendship because of her choice in a boyfriend?