I (34F) was not invited to my childhood friends (36M) stag . And while I was hurt that is not the full story. I have never had many girl friends, one of the boys through and through. Recently one of my best friends since I was a teen is getting married and I was gutted that I wasn't a part of his stag invite. And I'm going to be honest people, I did in fact let it go. Even making a point that I don't want anyone to let him know how I feel because it is in fact his night and I definitely do not want to make him feel bad in any way shape of form! But here is the thing, my other best friend (31M) said that I wouldn't be invited to his either because I'm a girl and it wouldn't be right. Well now I'm pissed... we have hung out weekly for over a decade, we do so much together, pretty much inseparable, and I'm gonna be honest reddit, I'm gay too so we talk about girls like any other bros out there. Traditionally women wouldn't previously hang out with men, so I get that they wouldn't be invited to a stag, segregation being all the rage back then. But there is nothing "Traditional" about our friendship either. We are a small group of friends and they are all going..

So now I've fallen out with them.. so AITA...