I (17 F) have been with my boyfriend (20 M) for about 6 months now. We have a really good relationship overall... he’s kind, supportive, and we get along great. We haven’t done anything sexual yet only kissing, and he’s never pressured me, which I really appreciate.

The thing is, I’ve grown a lot in the last 1-2 years, and my chest is now very large. I never really thought much of it, but I’ve noticed my boyfriend does. He stares sometimes, though he tries to be subtle. I know he finds me attractive, which isn’t a bad thing, but it makes me a little self-conscious.

Recently, he told me what he wants for his 21st birthday that is in 2 months... he wants to suck on my boobs. At first, I thought he was joking, but he was serious. He said he’s never done it before and has always wanted to. He wasn’t pushy about it, he always tells me how much he loves me and if i dont want to its okay, but he said that it would make him really really happy.

I don’t know how to feel. On one hand, I want to make him happy, and I feel like this is something small compared to what a lot of couples do. On the other hand, it makes me feel weird because we haven’t done anything sexual before, and this feels like jumping straight into something really intimate. I don’t know if I’m overthinking or if this is a valid concern.

I asked him why this specifically, and he said he just finds the idea really exciting and has always wanted to try it. I told him I’d think about it, and he didn’t push, but I can tell he’s hoping I’ll say yes.

I feel stuck. I don’t want to disappoint him, but I also don’t know if I’m comfortable with it. If I say no, I feel like I’m making a big deal out of something that might not even be a big deal. If I say yes, I worry I might regret it or feel uncomfortable in the moment.

Please help me, what should i do? do you have any advice for me...?