Not my first language. Basically my birthday was on the 3 of April and because I am struggling with my mental health I decided that this year I wanted to just watch a movie with my family and relax, my friends insisted that I make a party but I refused, then one of my friends told me that on that date the guy she was seeing wanted to ask her on a date to ask her to be his girlfriend, I told her that then every year we were going to fight over celebrations and she said that I shouldn't worry about that. She told me that she would change it if I did something, but then I feel forsed to make a party I didn't wanted to do. Idk I know I don't own a day but now I feel like every year isn't going to be my birthday and that now we are always going to argue over when to celebrate each thing.

At the end their anniversary did end up being on my birthday, but at the end of the day if next year I am celebrating my birthday and she has a problem with the date she can just not come, I'm not changing anything either.