For context, I’m F20 he’s M20. We’ve been together 4 years living together for 2. I woke up at 4:28 am to him coming to bed and I asked hey can you flip the laundry real quick. He said “oh, I just started mine” meaning that he had thrown his in and restarted my laundry. I had an alarm for 4:30 to flip my laundry because I had to be at work across town by 6am. We are both steadfast that the other person is wrong. We both do laundry every day/night. He’s saying I should have told him I was doing laundry, I’m saying he should have checked before throwing his clothes in, knowing i had to work early. Normally him restarting it would be fine if he let me know to flip it when I work at 11 or 3. But he knew I worked early, and didn’t check. AITA?