My gf (25F) and I (23M) have been together for 3 years now. We have an amazing relationship and we are very constructive with how we deal with issues in our relationship.

Something we have not been able to find a common ground on is social media use.

For about the last year and a half we have had multiple conversations about how my online presence is harmful to our relationship and how she feels hurt by some of the things I have done. Over time, I have changed how I use social media to better align someone who is in a relationship

Things I have changed: - Unfollowed and removed girls who I have any history with - Don't like posts by other girls and any post that might be suggestive - Don't follow accounts with suggestive content - Only follow someone if I know them and have mutual with them and if they do not post suggestive pictures

Things my gf and I disagree with: - Following any girl first - doesn't matter how I know them - Wanting to grow my account and gain more followers (She thinks this will lead to me following other girls) - Following people from my photography account unless they are a guy