1st post so forgive me,a month ago my mum took my 2 year old for his 1st hair cut without parental consent he had a natural mullet and being ginger we loved his hair she already taken my daughter for hair cut without permission told her not happy and she always asked since but then when she done it to my son we flipped as told her 2 month prior no we leaving his hair for now my partner did mail her expressing not happy and she was not being left unsupervised for now and I hadn't spoken to her then last night mailed me asking see the kids supervised by me and the mails my partner sent her like I didn't already know what he sent her but I don't want see her it's my partner encouraging me make up even when she making him out be this horrible person not a parent amgry cause his son kept touching his hair upset even freaked out at the sound of a beard trimmer but I never stopped her coming to see the kids at my house and she never apologised either texting "I'm sorry I didn't ask" to my partner isn't an apology and I told her that she ignored my mail, my dad passed 4 years ago usually he would have told her she was wrong and explain but she no longer has his voice of reason, I dunno why im even posting i just want to know if I'm in the wrong as I'm stubborn but never have a backbone especially against my mum but it's my kids and feel was the straw that broke the camels back with her right now as she never respects me my partner and our boundaries (I struggle with sentence structure so really sorry)