I (16F), my mom (36F), and my sister (13F) are currently living with my ex best friend (18F) and her mother (42F) after getting out of a really bad household. I met my ex best friend (we’ll call her Sav) around a year ago in my freshman year of highschool which she was a junior at the time. We became close really fast and I never suspected any hard feelings towards me or resent, it was smooth sailing.

In October of 2024 my family and I had to get out of a really bad situation, Sav and her mom (Amy) offered for us to stay until the end of the school year. I’m never in the house due to my relationship, after school activities, and the gym, which I can agree might’ve taken a toll on our friendship but we would always keep great communication. Everything in the house was going great up until December of 2024, in which I noticed really awful comments towards me (Ex: “why are you fatter than your boyfriend?” and “are you sure you want to wear that?”) along with taking my things when I’m not home such as my makeup and clothes. I made it clear to her that this took a massive toll on our friendship but I will try my hardest to build my trust with her again since I didn’t want to lose her or have a hostile living environment, considering I just escaped one.

Our friendship was really rocky for a month or so and we kept our distance, but we eventually came to an understanding that it won’t be the same but we’d still like to be friends in which I was completely okay with! Up until February 2025 we were on decent terms… until she started taking her anger out on me and throwing anything she could find towards me. I thought this behavior was okay at first, she made me feel as if I deserved it but after talking with my therapist I realized that I should set a clear boundary on we should treat each other. I sat her down and told her that it wasn’t okay to throw things at anyone but that it’s completely okay to feel those emotions, to just talk to me and not worry about judgement. This worked for a week..

After this, she completely stopped talking to me so I gave up on giving all of my energy into our friendship when I’ve been nothing but disrespected the past few months. I thought that this would be okay.. until she started sneaking into my room and stealing all of my mothers money that she’s been saving for us to move out, my personal belongings, and any alcohol in the house. At first I expressed concern until she lied to my mother and I’s face about everything, so my mother tried to bring it to Amy but she said that I’m a “disgusting, disrespectful, and lying bi***”. This was a complete shock to everyone in the house because I’ve been putting everything into trying to fix things.

Following this situation, little things started to happen from both Amy and Sav. More money went missing, they’re taking my food (I need gluten free food as I have celiac disease), and they’re taking all of my sugar free drinks because I can’t handle a lot of sugar. Then Amy started making me do her laundry right before I went to bed, I let this happen for a few weeks but one day I took her wet laundry and put it on her bed because I was so exhausted. I wasn’t able to get any sleep.

The following day, my mother and I get berated from both Amy and Sav for me moving the laundry. They were saying that I was such an ungrateful brat, a horrible person, and a selfish cu**. I admitted to doing it and I apologized profusely but they’re now openly crap talking me in the house and Sav is now spreading all of my personal information around school. I’m now being heavily bullied for my childhood trauma, my appearance, and how I dress. I’m starting to think that I went too far.

AITA for moving the wet laundry after getting fed up?

Edit: For context, Amy is never home at night since she is at her boyfriends and has never given me a reason as to why she’s making me do it.

I also apologize for the awful organization. Feel free to ask any questions if there’s any spots that may need more context.