I(39f) and my bf(39m) live together and have a 6mth old boy. My bf's pretty chill but when angry, will literally behave like a woman. No yelling or screaming but wont talk and will continue with malice until either we're both tired or a family member steps in. Begining of the relationship, i apologised furstly, i was the gurl who would send paragraphs to explain but it didnt matter...once his mind was made up...i would end up just apologising so we can move on. He would only say sorry after ive said it. Fast forward now to the weekend. I get so tired from being with baby and the constant waking up at night. He knows this. I suggested sex shouldnt take so long, i simply would like some time to just chill out. We've talked about this, he tells me he understands. Some nights he gets ut, some nights he doesnt. I get so tired and irritated because while he gets to sleep, im up because baby's up maybe 20-30mins after. We do it on a saturday, during the process im asking him to please be done...my jip's hurting now and im tired. He takes his time. We're finally done and i tell him how i feel, he laughs it off...probably thinking im joking. As predicted, baby's up so i dont get much sleep again. Next day i follow him to an appt, he asks if im okay...i say no, tell him why...he starts laughing. I tell him that his laughter annoys me. Now we're on the silent treatment for the rest of the day and the next. I finally try to talk to him today and i blow up, trying to explain to him that he always does this. If the reverse was the case, he would stand on his right and make sure i apologise. Now im the bad person. Im sorry its a long read but curious to know if im the AH?