My dad left my mom 7 years ago to be with his now wife. She’s a really nice lady and is the complete opposite of my mother. She’s calm, collected and is very mature.

My mother on the other hand is emotionally immature. Has screaming outbursts, she makes herself angry on purpose and is honestly very stressful to be around.

My dad ended up cheating on my mom with his now wife while he was deployed. Yes, EXTREMELY MESSED UP. It broke our family apart. But, my mom still can’t get over it.

Every time I talk to her she always brings him up. She asks me about what he’s doing and “what’s the tea?” Like she’s a high school girl. She’s constantly talking shit and is obsessed with what he’s doing or what his new wife is doing 24/7. One time she tried to pay me to drive past their house just to stalk.

I’m honestly so tired of it. When she doesn’t talk about him she becomes a ray of sunshine and is smiling. Then, she makes herself angry and the cycle continues over and over again.

I just don’t care anymore. It makes it hard to talk to her. I try to steer the conversation to a lighter subject but she just bulldozers over.

AITA??