I 18F and my family we’re hosting a little get together after easter since we couldn’t see eachother on the actual date, It was super casual with just my aunt and uncle as well as homemade pizza.

About 10 minutes after they arrived and I greeted them each with a hug and quick small talk, my aunt asked if I could make a prepackaged salad she brought so I quickly got to work and listened as they all chatted in the livingroom. My sister 19F then came up to me and said “I know you’re a woke feminist or whatever, but you should really wear a bra. Theyre literally staring at me.” (They as in my nipples I guess?) I was very taken aback as well as embarrassed because although she said it quietly and away from others it still felt humiliating. For context I do have a rather large chest for my frame, I’m about 128 lbs with DD cup and I was wearing a white tanktop. I told her that she was being ridiculous because we’re around family and then she got upset at me for making a big deal out of the situation since I guess she was trying to help me?

I ended up changing out of embarrassment and put on a bra, but then when I was talking to my younger sister about it she told me my sister had already talked to my mom about it and how “everyone was avoiding eye contact with them” This made me even more uncomfortable because I was only around family and it was just a casual meetup in my own house.

My aunt and uncle are christain and conservative, but they usually keep their opinions to themselves since we are a liberal house, I can’t tell if I was actually in the wrong now because of that, but they hadn’t brought it up, I’m not even sure if they WOULD because it is weird and uncomfortable.

AITA for not wearing a bra in front of my family?