I 32(f) told my boyfriend(42m) of 3 years that I only was trying to help him, after he got mad at me for breaking a glass tube that is worth like 25cents. He has a history of overreacting to things or taking things the wrong way. We've been in a fight for 3 days because he's mad at me, after telling him I was only trying to help him because to him that means that I am not taking responsibility for the glass tube breaking and I'm blaming him for it breaking by saying I was only trying to help you because you said you were going to and didn't get to it yet and I didn't want the glass to chip off so I took the initiative to cauterize it so no one would get cut by it. I torched the glass too quickly and he got furious with me for the glass cracking, I said "I'm sorry, I thought I knew how to do it, and I only did it because you said you were going to and didn't do it yet, and I wanted to help you by shortening the list of things you have to do." He then became even more enraged because he thinks I am blamimg him for the glass breaking. I am just giving him the reason I torched the glass in the first place, not trying to blame him for it, since he got so mad about it breaking I wanted to make sure that he knew I had good intentions by wanting to help him by taking something off his plate because he has a huge list of tasks he needs to complete and I thought I could do it to help him. Aita for not thinking that giving him my reason for the glass breaking is the same thing as placing the blame on him? Or aita for blamimg him by saying the reason the glass broke waa because I wanted to help him.