title says everything. I’m a male in his early teens and I was eating breakfast and put my dish in the dishwasher like my sister always told me. important context I used to leave dishes in the open after eating without putting it away and my sister always told me in a rude tone to put the dishes in the dishwasher and I totally understand her. Now back to the story, I put my dish in the dishwasher and went upstairs and didn’t think about it after, my sister came in and asked if I put my dish away in the dishwasher and I said yes. She then got mad and said why I would do that since the dishwasher was just used and I reminded her the times she got mad for me NOT putting the dishes away and i told her to do it herself since she always got angry when I didn’t put the dishes in the washer and we got in a argument and she ended up screaming at me. so I was wondering AITA? And advice on how to approach her about this would be helpful as well