I was out at a club with friends, waiting at the bar with one of them to order a drink. After about 5 minutes, another friend and his girlfriend came over and waited too. When someone left the bar, I was waiting for them to fully clear out before stepping forward, but the girlfriend shoved in to take the spot.

I was annoyed (especially because I’ve seen her act in similar ways before to other people), but I told her politely that she had cut us. She looked at me, shrugged, and didn’t say anything or offer to get our drinks too. After that, I called her an asshole.

The next day, she apologized for her behavior, and I thought it was resolved. But later she told me I also needed to apologize for calling her an asshole. I said no. I tried to handle it respectfully, she brushed me off, and my comment was deserved. I also pointed out she probably wouldn’t have even reflected on her behavior if I hadn't said it.

She got extremely upset, said she "doesn’t tolerate disrespect" and brought a few other girls from the group to tell me how wrong I was to call her names.

I’m standing firm that I don’t owe her an apology.

AITA?