My daughters 9 and is dying for sleepovers. I refuse idc who the other person is family or friends it’s ALWAYS a hard no for me. Please tell me I’m not alone in this sentiment? Things were different when I was growing up in the 90’s and I have my own scars from “Trusted Adults” at sleepovers. AITA for always refusing and projecting my experiences, or is the norm for others ?

Edit to add: She does go to my sisters and spends time with her cousins that are her age and sleeps over there occasionally ( everyone else is a hard no ) I keep also keep her active in tons of group sports and activities so we’re not like recluses lol