I set boundaries with my poor classmates, because they have asked me for handouts in the past. They are basically calling me an asshole because I'm not giving them handouts. They are not my friends, so why should I give them anything? They think I owe them something because we go to same school, but I never sit with them and eat with them. They are mad because I create a boundary and when I don't blend with them, it triggers inferiority. They are beggars, one of them wants an I phone, one wants ipad, one wants macbook etc.