So I (18M) was in a relationship with this girl (18F) for about 3 months. and for the most part, it was going okay. She really is a nice person and what most people would say perfect. She's hot, beautiful and honestly a great person.

One day, we were just talking about random things and somehow the topic of body count came up. I asked her about hers and not in a judgmental way. just being honest since we were opening up. She told me she was a virgin and which was nice to hear since I love that we were each other's firsts.

Later on, I found out through someone else (a mutual friend) that her actual body count was a lot higher than what she told me which was around 12 or 15 think. She also participated in a threesome with 2 older boys when she was 17 which I was disgusted by thaI was surprised, betrayed and felt kind of hurt not because of the number itself, but because she lied to me.

When I confronted her, she started to break down in tears and she hadn’t been truthful because she “didn’t want me to think less of her" and that "it didn't mean anything" and was just quick fun sex. I then sort of slutshamed her by calling her nasty things and how she doesn't get to just lie to people and expect that they won't be mad or hurt or betrayed.

I told her it wasn’t about the number but the dishonesty, and that I didn’t feel like I could trust her anymore. That is she were to lies about something like this. How would I expect her to not lie about some other things.I ended things and she broke down so much and beg me to not leave. I comforted her but still chose to leave.

I totally feel sort of disgusting since I had sex with her and I gave my virginity to someone who values sex so lightly and like a fun activity when I view sex as something intimate and special.

I was then bombarded by texts including her friends saying I overreacted and that I’m being immature or shallow for caring about something like that. I told them that it's just preferences and I care about the lie more than the number of people that fucked her.

So AITA for breaking up with her over this?