Idk how to explain this story, it all blew out of proportion so quickly. For some contex both me and my friend (let's call her Laura) are in high school. We are good friends.

So today I saw her in class and while I was packing all my things my food spilled all over my backpack and she just saw that and told me she was going to class even tho we always go to class together, I was upset about my bag situation and she leaving but I brushed it off. Then one friend of mine needed to ask Lauta some questions so he asked me to ask her. Then we saw each other at lunch and I always sit in between Laura and some other guy. However today they were sitting side by side, so I sat next to Laura and asked her if she could please change sits with me, then she just looked at me and proceed to stand up and leave the Cafetería without saying anything. Since I was worried I texted her and I'm just gonna put the messages because so much to explain.

Me: What's up? Why did you just walk away?

Her: I'm irritated, My body hurts, and people keep asking me for stupid shit just because. So l'm chiillin out rn before go off on somebody because someone always wants me to fucking do something.

So don't ask me for anything else.

Today is not the day.

Me: Hey don't speak to me like that first of all, I asked you to change sits, if u were that pissed tell me no.

You don't need to get rude with me

I didn't knew u were feeling like that

That said, can I do smt for you? I hate for you to feel bad

Her: I'm not speakin to you in any sort of way. lm just telling you how I feel and please don't ask me for anything else

Im not being rude.

Me: Yes you were but ok whatever, I hope you feel better

Her: None of that was directed towards you I literally just told you how I felt.... But since I was being rude and after I told you I wasn't you still wanna say am don't speak to me the rest of the year. Buh bye.

Me: If you need anything from me please tell me

Her: Your not gonna sit here and be fucking sarcastic with me just because I was teling you how I feel today. I'm not the one.

Me: I'm not been sarcastic???? I'm worried about you????

Wtf I'm genuinly worried about you, not been sarcastic, just didn't like the mannerd because maeby you didn't mean ir bad but in text it sounded very rude

Her: There's no tone in text I dunno what you want me to do about it. I was teling you HOW I FELT. Not one did I sit there and be like " you keep asking me for stupid shit, don't ask me for anything else." l'm a verry direct person and I would've told you if thats the case. So stop making assumptions.

I can say yes and no to you with no issues. Its never that deep.

Me: Ok, I'm not in the mood and ur probably not either, let's both calm down and we can talk any other moment about this.

Me: Ok so I collected better my thought, let me explain myself. You walked away like that and I thought maeby u were mad at me. When I asked you and you said "people keep asking me for stupid shit" and "someone always wants me to fucking do something" I thought you were directing it towards me (as you confirmed, text has no tone, so I think is fair that I thought that ) because I both asked u abt the yearbook and to change sits and because u were texting it to me, you reinforced this thinking when saying "so don't ask me for anything else".

I thought this was very rude of you for the rough way of expressing and because I thought I didn't deserve ro be talked like that.

Then I was never been sarcastic, I was genuinly worring abt u, I was trying to be there for you and I ment it when I said "I hope you feel better" but u may have misunderstood, like I did at the beginning.

Know I apologize for misunderstanding the beginning and getting defensive so fast, I understand you were frustrated and I wasn't considering the option of that not bwen directed towards me.

This said, it hurts me deeply that you inmideatly jumped to "don't speak to me the rest of the year" like I was worring about you, I thought fir several reasons that you were been rude and you jump to not talk to me?? That just demonstrated how little you really care about me as a friend (if you say that's not true then idk but that is how is looking). I think you did git very rude with me, you don't need to jump that quickly and hurt my feelings and I don't deserve to be treated like that.

Anyways, that is a lot of text, respond/read whenever you want, no rush

I hope ur feeling better now

Her: Mmkay.

When I said "I'm just telling you how I feel." And then I directly told you it wasn't directed toward you. Its rude of you to sit here and tell me I'm being rude anyway, after I confirmed that I'm not directing it at you.

Im Hot headed. When I'm not directing anything I said at you and you say "Hey don't speak to me like that first of all." I was very much tryna figure out who tf you talkin to bc Ik it ain't me. I'm not tolerating bullshit and then you hit me with the "Yes you were but okay, whatever." Which was also in your words. RUDE ASF. So now that has officially pissed me off when It comes down to it. I wasn't mad at you from the beginning, I was okay with you from the beginning of the day.

I'm not gonna go back and forth with you. I'm just repeating myself atp.

And the don't talk to me for the rest of the year? No that doesn't mean I care little about you as a friend after telling you on prom night that I would go to war for you and was worried about you getting snatched or attacked at 1am on your way home. So I will apologize for that because that was a product of me just being mad and not thinking before I speak. I'm sorry, I really do love you to death.

I wasn't directing my text at you and I'm sorry if you felt that way. I forgot about you asking me questions for yearbook so i wasn't worried about that thats wasn't a problem. You asking me to switch seats wasn't a biggy, I just sat there bc that girl took mine. I got up and walked off to take a nap in the office. I was tired and looking for reasons to call off work.

Because I used to be a push over people ask me the same questions every day and won't leave me the fuck alone, asking me if I got snacks like I'm a fucking vending machine when I barely know them, always asking to borrow my shit then having to beg them to give it back for days till i get it and never let them borrow it again.

They keep asking me for shit and it was getting to me so I almost went off on them. Especially this one dude i bought donuts for who said he'd pay me back and ended up not even doing it.

And the conversation ends there, I'm conflicted, a part of me thinks is all my fault, I git defensive, I'm sensible and honestly today I was sad, the other part sais she was been rude and doesn't care about how I felt in the moment, that shouldn't forgive her. I feel I'm going crazy seen how all this went down and idk what to do or say.

Sorry for the long ass post but I needed this.