So my girlfriend (F16) is getting invited to her ex's birthday party by her cousin brother ( she's doesn't want to go at all ) and she's afraid if she doesn't go , the cousin is gonna tell her parents and the aunt she's living with about the ex . Her parents and aunt are super strict about this relationship matter and only recently allowed to date me after a drama (Only her parents know about me not the aunt ) and she's worried her parents and aunt are gonna bomb her if they find out about a second ex because she told them she had only one ex . Me , the boyfriend (M17) is really worried about this , she had told me this ex was really toxic and I'm worried something bad will happen like really . I want to go with her but this cousin is also coming if he sees me he's gonna snitch about the ex and both me which will lead my girlfriend getting scolded more especially by her aunt because she also doesn't know about me too . She's going alone with the cousin only none guardian ,I just don't know what to do at all I told her not go but she very worried about the after consequences if she doesnt go and this cousin tells about this ex. She told me she got badly scolded when she told about her first ex and she's afraid she'll get scolded even more , but I said even tho you'll get heavily scolded you should not go because what if something bad happens plus I'm sure they won't mind because this ex was like about a year ago. AITA ? When I told this it sound like I was insecure but who won't be ?? The birthday is this week what should I do ?