I know this sounds bad lol.

Me and husband have been together since high school. For YEARS we had the most kinkiest, dirtiest sex ever and I was so unbelievably satisfied in the bedroom. The last like 2 years, our sex has either been non existent or boring. Be just wants to have sex before bed in the dark and it’s just 1 or 2 positions and I tell him plenty of times that I’m not satisfied and wondering why he isn’t as kinky as he always used to be. He told me we’ve just got older now, and we have a dog and a busy schedule so it just can’t be like that anymore. But now I literally dread to have sex with him, it’s such a chore because it’s never ever how I like it, no matter what I tell him. Last night he tried it on with me before bed in the dark, the same old. And I just pushed his hand away and told him I don’t want to have sex on routine anymore, it’s boring and it’s all the same and I’m not satisfied. Well for some reason this time I said that he got so upset and went to sleep downstairs. Well haven’t spoke all of today and apparently I’m an AH for saying that. I’m just sick of him not listening to my needs in the bedroom. It’s boring af.

AITA?