I (F20) have a boyfriend (M20) and I am on birth control pills and my mother (F49) found it one time when she was cleaning the house and immediately started slut-shaming me. She said how dare I have pre-marital sex and drag her into sin, she asked if am I not ashamed of giving away my body out of marriage.

I didn't say anything about it but she continued yapping about it and slut-shaming me the next few days, she even installed cctv cameras even inside the rooms to prevent me from "commiting sins." Eventually, I got tired and felt talked back and told her to look at herself in the mirror first before slut-shaming me and calling me a sinner. I emphasized tee fact that she is a single mother of one son and two daughters with different fathers and none of them married her. None of them are even present. I was the one who took care of her baby daughter at the age of 9 and told me that it was my responsibility. She blamed me for all her suffering and how things are hard for her and I should be helping her out becauae it was my "responsibility."

After that, I got a scolding from my brother on how I should not use our mother's past against her and the proceeded on telling me how I'm so full of myself when I have nothing to actually brag about. So aita for telling my mother to look at herself in the mirror first before slut-shaming me? It's hard for me to reflect on it since I have a deep resentment for my mother.