My mom hasn't been acting like an adult, she's rather childish and takes nothing serious. Her selfish behavior makes her think about herself and no one else.

She's been married to her husband for a year now, it was strange to me that she randomly brought a man home that her kids weren't familer with. No heads up or anything, the man also has a daughter(8) from a previous marriage. His previous wife passed 2 years ago, my mom said she knew him when they were in college. I did not like this man because he gave me weird vibes, he would look at me weird as if I was food and it was gross. There was a time we went out to eat and he was cat calling another women when my mom said nothing, I don't understand why men are so comfortable to cat call.

It was so odd to me, she let this man come into our life e and control everything. She stopped working so the bills are paid because of him, my mom just does wife duties. This man expects a meal every night, a very weird mindset. He got so comfortable to the point he tried to control my brother and I, we weren't going for that. He tried to make cookies with me so we can have that bond, I didn't want anything to do with him. He tried to take phones if we didn't do as he said.

I told my mom my concern about everything because it was happening so fast, my mom would always be this bubbly person but now she would often wear the same clothes, her eye bags got worse. As much as I tell her she just shuts me out, she told me I'm being disrespectful because I don't respect Danny when he does a lot for us. He never did anything for me, she was choosing Danny over her kids but that's ok.

Recently Danny and my mom have been getting into arguments and its because of mecm, Danny doesn't think I'm being respect to him so he told my mom he will put me in my place. My mom went on about how she will talk to me so I can fix my attitude towards him, I just wanted to be left alone. In all this Danny daughter would be a crying mess because he wants to act immature, I knew what was happening. Danny was jealous of me and my brother and wanted us out so he can have the attention on him but he got it.

Instead of my mom talking to me, Danny came up to me yelling in my face that I need to respect him. No way did this man feel comfortable to come up into my face, I most definitely told my dad about it. My mom was standing there not saying a word, its crazy how one person can change you. I yelled back and told him I don't need to so please get away from me, that's when he said I should care about him when he pays the bills around here to help is survive. I told him it doesn't matter what he does because he can die for all I care. My mom went crazy on me and told me I was an ass for saying that, I ended up taking my brother to our grandmom's house.