My girlfriend(20F) got upset at me(22M) because I said the first time I ever go out of the country I want it to be a trip to Japan with my friends. She suggested I go with her but I explained me and my friends have been talking about this trip for years and that I want to go with them first. This then lead to her asking about other things like strip club, nightclub, etc and I told her that those are also things I’d rather do with them the first time. I explained that those are just things I would enjoy doing with my friends more for the first time but she didn’t really like that even though I said I had no problem doing it with her I just wanted my first experience with them. She feels like I should be willing to go with her instead am I wrong for this?