📝 AITA for wanting to go home when my girlfriend is on her period?

By PandaFuFu2 • Score: 3 • April 18, 2025 1:50 PM


For context, me (24m) and my girlfriend (21f) both stay on-campus during the weekdays. We both have our own rooms.

On Thursday night, she asked me to go over to her room and sleep over. The initial plan was for us to sleepover then wake up in the morning to eat lunch and I go back home alone since she did not want to go home. However, recently she had been having issues sleeping at night, basically her sleep schedule was inverted so she would sleep in the day and be awake at night. So, she asked for me to stay with her until Friday night and we would go home together.

However, on Friday, she slept the whole afternoon and her period came at the same time. So now she asked if I could stay until Saturday afternoon. However, that was at Friday 8pm, which by then I was ready to go home.

AITA for still wanting to go home? Keep in mind this is not the first time she has slept in and delayed me from going home. She always says that she feels bad for making me stay longer but in my opinion, she doesn’t seem to change because I keep giving in to her.

Edit: Finals are in 2 weeks and I have 5 finals to study for. I made it clear that I did not want sex and she was ok with it. Not everything is about sex.

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