By throwaway109567893 • Score: 1 • April 12, 2025 4:02 AM
My best friend started a relationship with her boyfriend this past winter. In the beginning I was understanding of her not hanging out with me a lot due to wanting to hang out with him. However, now, roughly 7 months into their relationship we’re still having the same issues. No matter how much I ask she will not hang out with me and if she does it’s always in a group setting. We have not had a one-on-one girls day since late December and it’s starting to weigh on me. There are often times where she will cancel on me super late notice or invite other people to our plans without asking me. I have had numerous conversations about wanting to hang out with just her because it’s been months since we’ve done so, and she gets very defensive about it every time. In these conversations, she ends up yelling at me over the phone and telling me that it’s not a big deal. In addition to this, she is never there for me anymore and every time I want to talk to my best friend about something bothering me, she tells me she doesn’t want to be dumped on. However, I am her dumping ground when her boyfriend does something she doesn’t like. It is getting to the point where I feel like more of a friend out of convenience, rather than an actual friend, and I am genuinely contemplating ending the friendship. AITA for feeling this way?
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