Okay so I'm 20F and my older sister 23F. We were close and also we weren't because we are totally different she's like do what you want passion even if it won't land you in a good place but I'm more realistic and make choices based on what will land me the best.

NOW when it comes to love relationship etc my older sister is like......very......she does too MUCH for just a girlfriend status ans gets dissapointed ans then she won't leave only after......MANY times getting back together.

My current issue is with her current bf he's good compared to her ex (I hated her ex he was toxic asf) and he's a Christian....now the reason I'm bringing religion is that we as a family we are not like religious religious we believe in God not like Allah, Jesus etc we visit churches or the Muslim kind (i can't remember how they are called in English sorry). So you get me? now my sister ex was Muslim and my sister would start like doing Ramadan or try scarfs you know just to appease him when he was completely shit and we didn't like that because if you want to be religious it should be because YOU want to not because your partner is and you trying to appease him.

With the current boyfriend my sister now tells me "Don't curse, It's lord not Jesus/God" she started wearing a cross necklace which she would never would she used to curse now she don't. She draws many paintings with crosses and more but i hope you get my point.

I hate that she trying so much so many things just for her partners when they don't give the same in return she's doing the same mistakes like last time but this time SHE is the problem to herself.

She jumped to this relationship just a month after she broke up with her toxic ex which they were together for 3 years.

I'm so fed up with her actions same with my parents but she doesn't really listens but my dad says she's a grown woman we can't do much she will understand the hard way.

So I don't want to get involved because I had a fight with my mom and I told her "If she's get into thr same situation I'm not helping her or anything. She can go to hell. trying to put senses into my older sister. Why should I keep trying? she doesn't listen to me because she says idk how relationships are you never got a boyfriend and more. She can go marry whoever she wants. she has psychology degree and she can't psychological see her own actions fucking Useless"

so......am i shitty?

(ignore my grammar etc not first language and I'm dyslexic)