Sam was my roommate. I’ve considered ending the friendship because of who she dates the past 10yrs. Sam dated Jai in hs, he came to visit our dorm he bought his best friend Nick. I wasnt at school Nick wanted a place to sit enough chairs in our room. I come back I ask who’s been in my bed, Sam“I didn’t think youd notice Nick sat in your bed he said you’d never know so he sat in your bed.” I have an ick about outside clothes being in my bed. I felt very disrespected and I’ve never met this man. Nick also lied that our friend Lea was DTF when she took him to her room so that Sam and Jai could have sex. FFW Sam starts dating Nick even tho he’s still besties w her ex Jai. Sam and Lea have the same bday so we celebrate their bdays together. Sam ends up pregnant by Nick. Nick cheats gets Pam pregnant. They both terminate the pregnancy she stays with Nick. Nick is so desperate he pays for a prostitute in another country.

Celebrating Lea and Sam’s birthdays at a resort but Lea and her bf stay in a different hotel. I’m stuck with Sam and Nick. Nicks drunk and is knocking on my door Z let me sleep with you Sam doesnt love me. Sam is standing there. I’m like no wth. Nick I’m gonna leave I take his keys. Sam and I go to a pool party. Nick is like you two look good. Z can I get a hug? The resort incident 4 yrs b4. I tell him no Nick is telling Sam how great of a friend I am because he was trying to fuck me that night. If I was any other friend I would have fucked him. In my head im like this man would never have a chance with me even if I was blind and drugged. I don’t go after my friends S/O. Covid Sam,Nick and Jai his gf are playing a game “Would you sleep with one of my best friends?” He drinks that’s an answer itself. Nick told Sam when first started dating he would never date anyone darker than her. He’s dark skinned she’s brown skin. Sam has done things not while in a relationship it is just like she wants to be a side piece to dudes from HS. There’s a guy she liked in Hs Blake who’s been with Kacey since hs I guess. Sam knows their relationship is rocky but continues to sleep with Blake, he leaves his phone at home so Kacey cant track him. Kacey ends up pregnant Blake tells Sam hes not leaving Kacey.Sam continues sex with him he’s also thinking of proposing to Kacey. Same time Nick gets Pam pregnant again when he and Sam are trying to reconnect. Sam likes to use the excuse of Ovulation as to why she’s so “feral”. Popping plan B’s. Lea and I have told Sam to block BOTH of them she has every excuse in the world as to why she can’t let go. Sam goes on a trip to celebrate her birthday post pictures from a photoshoot she did. Nick calls her and is like I was in my feelings you look good are you pregnant, Have you been fucking someone else? I want us to get back together give me another chance I know I don’t deserve it. Sam is like I’m not telling him no and I’m not telling him yes. I’m like not telling him no is giving him a yes. If he’s around I wont be.