AITAH for wanting to cheat on my S/O we have been dating for over a year now and since day one I have told her I am always ready for bedroom fun. This was all well and good for the first 10 months of the relationship as it was always me perusing her and since then I have take a step back from perusing her in the bedroom. For the past 3 I have stopped perusing her and she has not once perused me after many conversations about this can anyone give me pointers in making her want to initiate because I feel gross always chasing her and she knows this