I need help. So, a few months ago, me (f17) and my friend (f17) had started our own game nights. She asked if her boyfriend (m20) could join and I said said yes. Me and my friend have known each other since the 6th grade and her and her bf have been dating for 3 years. Everything went okay until he was conplaining that the new Monster Hunter game wasn't coming out for another hour (he lives in Brazil and me and my friend live in a Southern state in the USA) and I said in a sarcastic and joking tone "you will be fine, you big baby". Where I live, this is a joke and everyone I have ever met has made this joke around me. I have said this before and he never seemed or acted hurt by this. However, this time be got all angry and left our discord voice channel. A few days went by and I didn't ask if they wanted to play because I didn't want to seem clingy but ever since the incident, my friend would say no every time I asked is she wanted to play. I thought it was weird that it was a no every time. So, I confronted them about it and we had a long talk. He was saying how that comment hurt and how people, whether is they are a friend or an acquaintance, if they mess up once then he deletes them from his life and that our "frienship that never truly bloomed" endes that day. I kept apologizing because I am the person who will take the blame and try to apologize even if something ua not my fault. When I apologized many times, he said apologies can't fix everything. I knew this but in order to make something right, you need to apologize first and go from there. He didn't care and decided to treat wne like a child. He decided to give me a second chance. He said that just because he is not my friend, that doesn't mean I will lose my other friend but it felt like I was. The convos after that felt strange and forced on my part because I felt immensely guilty about it all and was trying to think of ways to fix it. I talked to another friend about it all and she does not believe I am at fault and, because I didn't either, said I should express my concerns to my friend who I am having problems with. Well, I did and she was calm about it and all until she told her bf and suddenly I was the villain all over again. I thought it was strange because she didn't think I was at fault until after talking to him about it. Another thing, lately the ways she types now and what she says looks a lot like what her bf would say. Since the relationship between me and my friend currently is really fragile, I don't want to tell her that her bf seems controlling and that I don't trust him because I just got me and her back to talking and I am afraid of losing her because of her bf. I was fine with her bf until now. Also, when me and my other friend were playing Genshin, I decided to invite my friend that I am having issues with and she repeatedly kept on saying " I don't have that game" or "I don't have the space for that game" but then the next day I saw she was playing it with her bf. I told her that I wouldn't ask her to play with me for awhile because I didn't want her to think that just because she is playing Genshin again that I was going to spam her discord and bug her by asking if we can play. She said, and this was also in the way and tonw her bf would have said it, that saying that was unnecessary and that if I have a problem to say it but to not put words into her mouth, which I never did. We have a 2 hour long argument and I finally got her to calm down. My friend said that if I need to talk ir have something on my mind, that I should say it but it seems like when I do, she or her and her bf get upset. What should I do and aitah? Also, I am doing this at 4 in the morning so I may be forgetting some details. If I remember details, I will make updates. This has been bugging me and I have been having servere and frequent anxiety attacks because I don't know what to do. Also, if there are any questions, I will answer them in an update.