Okay so my husband and I are staying with my parents over Easter at the moment and we have had a nice time. We have a 5 month old and she was sleeping on my husband in the lounge and then the dogs started barking and woke her up. The dogs are a little untrained and jump up on the couch and bark and it does annoy my husband, but even more so that our child woke up.

My dad came in, being none the wiser, as did I, and my husband was very obviously pissed off at something as he wouldn’t talk to anyone or say anything. My dad asked my husband if he was okay? And he responded with ‘yep’, even though he was obviously annoyed and just continued to sit on his iPad and not say anything. And then when my dad left, I asked him what was wrong and he just gave me an angry look, but I didn’t know why. I thought it was something I did but he wasn’t telling me.

So I texted him and what was wrong because something was very obviously wrong and I was feeling like I was on eggshells now and I was also somewhat embarrassed as he was pretty direct and rude to my dad. He then said me asking him what was wrong was making him more angry. He texted me saying ‘why do you think saying that shit will help’, to which he then tells me it’s because of the dogs. I tell him it’s not worth an argument or awkwardness and he goes ‘it’s okay it’s okay it’s okay it’s okay’ ‘Drives me MORE NUTS’ then ‘leave me ALONE’.

He then brings up that everyone is poking him, including me and he is over it and wants to be left alone. But we don’t know what’s wrong and he’s just angry and because I asked if he was angry, everyone else is the problem.

Now I am in trouble for being upset with his reaction and asking him if he is okay too many times. I just wanted to see if he was okay, and now I am in trouble for asking if he is okay and because I am sad now, he said he told me as ‘soon as he can’ and I’m continuing it.

AITAH?