I (21F) currently am a senior in college. The only family I have in the area is my oldest sister (31F) and brother in law. My sister invites me to hang out sometimes either to go to a spin class, yoga, brewery whatever.

My sister can be difficult at times. It’s very her way or the highway, she causes the most drama in our family. For example over Christmas she caused a massive fight between herself and my other sisters. This ended in a text she sent to my sister that went like this “Sorry for being rude during dinner but you were acting like a bitch” and then the final text sent was “bitchhhh bitch bitch”. If that gives you any sense of who she is.

She honestly may have a mental disorder but that’s never been confirmed. She’s just a lot for me to deal with. I do feel bad because she does reach out, and I do go every now and then. She told my mom that it feels as though I don’t even live near her. But on the contrary, if I do anything to upset her she will snitch on me.

When I first came here for school, she didn’t even pick me up from the airport, I ubered to her house even though she was supposed to. She also never picks me up, or drops me off even though I don’t have a car. It’s just difficult.

Any advice or AITAH