For context, my boyfriend (28M) and I (30F) have been together since 2022. He is a really sweet guy, however, I’ve been noticing more and more as time passes by that he is inconsiderate. I say inconsiderate instead of selfish because I truly don’t think he’s doing it intentionally. Examples of what I mean: • When I’m w him and we go to the gas station, he goes inside and gets himself something to drink and snack on, but doesn’t consider that maybe I’d want something. • On my days off of work, he’ll ask me to do our laundry. But on his days off of work, he never considers that maybe I don’t super enjoy doing laundry and that it would be nice if he could do our laundry every now and then. • When I go out to eat w/out him (either alone or w friends), I always make sure I get him something. When he goes out to eat w/out me, he comes back empty handed.

Those are just a few examples of what I mean when I say that he doesn’t consider me. It’s small things, yes, I know it sounds silly. But as his girlfriend, I’d like to be considered and thought of without having to ask.

Any advice would be appreciated. Constructive criticism would also be appreciated.