My wife (29F) and I (37M) met about 4 years ago and had known each other a few more years than that thru work. When we first started talking she hadn’t been in a serious relationship in 3 years and I was about 6 months post divorce. So in the beginning everything was amazing. We went and really acted like 18 year olds dating for the first time, lots of dates and adventures. The sex was decent but she said that in her past relationships she hadn’t been very active and wasn’t “experienced”.

After a few months one night we consensually decided to have sex without a condom. She was on birth control so we decided that would be sufficient. When the finishing act occurred she told me to finish inside her, so I obliged in the moment. Afterwards she told me no one has ever done that to me, and you are the only person I felt comfortable with at the even remote possibility of having a baby with if that occurred. That gave me sort of a special feeling I guess. I don’t really know what it did, but I remembered

Fast forward a few years and we are discussing sex. It was post sex and I mentioned something about I was the only one to ever have orgasmed inside of her and she goes no you aren’t my boyfriend that I dated for 3 years did a couple times. I didn’t care that he did, what past relationships did is her business. Where I had the issue was what she had told me in the very beginning.

So I confronted her about it, she said that it wasn’t that big of a deal and I should let it go. Where I find issue is if she lied about that what else has she lied to me about. Since that time I’ve caught her in several other lies mostly just details of situations. She always says she doesn’t remember the situation, but can perfectly recall other situations around the event she lied about. No cheating or anything detrimental to note as regards to her lying.

So AITAH for taking issue with this or should I just let it go like she said and chalk it up to her not remembering?