I (30F) have been together with my partner (29M) for two years and in the beginning was like any normal beginning with meeting the family and getting to know each other. It took us about 6 months before I was fully accepted and comfortable and like officially part of the family. We talked on the phone everyday since for hours at a time. I struggle with multiple mental health diagnoses and I ended up seeking care for that in a day program and his mom and sister were so supportive even when it felt like he wasn’t. I noticed that I had been putting my health off for a long time and getting help for some of the physical issues (still working on a diagnosis) and lost my license and my bf & I started arguing way more and things have gone down hill and his mom and sister were my support system and recently they just started giving me the cold shoulder and I get a phone call from my MIL maybe once a week now and it’s always very brief. My man told me yesterday that she offered to book the 3 of them (bf, mil, sil) a trip all expenses payed and just not tell me about it. I have not said or done anything about the situation bc I’m hurting inside & don’t want to hurt anyone just bc I’m hurting. To add: my dad was in and out as a kid, and he currently lives off grid, and my mom was emotionally unavailable and always working so I was always alone and never got to go on vacations and we have a very strained relationship and they know that I struggle with that and it just doesn’t sit right with me. AITAH for feeling this way?